In the midst of a dear friend trying to set me up with someone he thinks would be perfect for me, I scrambled for a few things that I would say if I were asked too many questions. (nothing materialized) One was that though my job isn't ideal, it's financing my other pursuits, so it's important to me. Second is about knitting specifically. Knitting is a meditative act; when I am making something for someone else, I am thinking about that person, praying for them, somehow being with them and sharing with them. In knitting for babies this is even cooler- that person isn't even born yet and all this is happening.